Why do we have such a short fucking memory??? The topiwalas and ppl in-charge keep repeating the same mistake and lives r taken just like that!

I cant believe that we happened to overlook a flaw for 15 years and the terror did came through that same fucking hole! I am talking abt the T-junction of mumbai, the vulnerable sea-route. During the 1993 blasts the ammunition came through that route and this is 2008, the fidayuns came through that route again. Just untill a few days before we were all feeling so proud abt our navy and how they were saving billions of dollars worth ships on the gulf of aden and here on the t-junction one of their own wing the coast-guard were sleeping when the fidayuns arrived. I really dont understand how cud they get so complacent.

The way the fidayuns or the fidaeens as they r called resisted and still r resisting its like they r fighting in their own backyard. And while they must hv done their reiki, our local intelligence had no idea abt their presence. I dont blame them much, coz its those topiwals in the last 7-8 years who hv sytematically fucked the entire local detection team which was once so sound. Half of them cud be either seen as watch dogs ard the assembly to protect those son of bitches inside and the remaining ones chasing whores ard the brothels, coz it seemed that our state home ministery was more interested in moral policing rather than letting them do the job for which they were trained for. The biggest joke was when i read Mr.KP Raghuvanshi had been serving as DG railways...my word! its like asking Sachin Tendulkar to bat at number 10! Now that Mr.Karkare-ATS Chief is dead the topiwalas had to bring him back where he belonged! I still cant believe that Mr.Karkare, Mr.Kamte and Salaskar r no more, its like breaking the mumbai police's Spine. I dont know how those topiwalas will fill this huge gap...

The last thing that pisses me to the core is when ppl say , these terror attacks cant put breaks on mumbai's spirit, bla bla bla...I mean why shud we move on? just to let the topiwalas take advantage of our short memories and daily chaos? I mean remember 9/11? the americans didnt moved untill they were sure that the authorities r on their way to take substantial steps for payback...We shud also not move an inch unless the gov really does something substantial, the ones who died were not some unwanted creatures, every life was very dear to us and we shall not fucking move an inch untill we get some payback.

I will not pray for the souls who died for no good reason, i sincerely wish that they haunt the ones who r accountable for this situation and dont rest in peace untill they get some payback!

I came back from KL last night, was terribly tired, but somehow when i m overstressed i dont get sleep. First i thought maybe i wud drink some whiskey, then i declined that thought, then i decided to catch up with a movie, i bought the CD long back but didnt had the time to watch, actually honestly since it was a hindi movie, i deliberately ignored it as then i start missing my motherland...:)


Anyway i watched the movie Kabul express starring John Abraham, Arshad Warsi, Salman Shahid Hanif Hum Ghum and Linda Arsenio...Its a fantastic movie about 5 people in an adventurous journey, one american journalist, two indian journalist, an afghani and one Pakistani major who served as Talib for 6 years. I must praise the director Kabir Khan for not fucking up the base of the story and keeping it very simple,yet very exciting.






I have been to that country twice, once during the early days of Talibaan rule and once after the Northern alliance and allied force led by US uprooted the talibaans. Its a fabulous country which had been ignored by the whole world for many years. The galant afghanis with their never say die attitude really impressed me and i hope now that things are slowly changing there, one day we will see the afghanis back in business again. The dry fruits will replace the opeum again just like the old days....

I never knew how to worship until I knew how to love.

Courtesy-Henry Ward Beecher

It's not just women who are lucky enough to have the ''fabled'' G spot, the route to sexual satisfaction, for men too are gifted with the ''pleasure zone'' - and the hot spot on the male body is prostate.

Yes, you heard it right. After years of bedroom exploration and debate, an expert has come to the conclusion that when it comes to "male G-spot", the prostate reigns supreme,As a man becomes sexually aroused, the prostate begins to swell with fluid, sending pleasurable sensations throughout his loins. These moan-worthy reactions get more and more intense, pulsating throughout a man's loins as he approaches orgasm.

However, digging for this piece of gold, which is the size of a chestnut, is not that easy.
So here's some tips to find the male "G-spot"

1 Know what you're looking for.
The prostate, which is found wrapped around the urethra, below the urinary bladder, is a firm, partly muscular, partly glandular body.

2 Realize that almost any time is a good time.
Unless a man isn't in the mood or prefers to be turned on first, the prostate is always up for action. While this erogenous zone comes alive when a male becomes sexually excited, it can also send amazing sensations sans erection and other stimulation. It is best, however, for a man to be already aroused before you go "probing," lest he's likelier to experience pain or discomfort.

3 Discuss the preferred method of stimulation.
The best way to access the prostate involves going to a place where more than just the sun doesn't shine. There are external ways to stimulate this organ, but you'll have to experiment, making communication key.

4 Explore different positions.
The prostate is best stimulated when a man is in a position that allows stimulation of the entire erogenous area.

5 Try a sex toy.
There are plenty of sexual enhancement products, including vibrators, which are designed specifically for prostate stimulation.

6 Know that prostate play isn't for everyone.
A person's discomfort with this type of sex play can override pleasures, neither of which does anybody any good. Some men, too, don't enjoy prostate stimulation at all, while others really don't think that much about it.

Courtesy :- ANI

Phew!!! Finally i am free for sometime, had a really really tiring and draining week. And the first few things that comes to my mind when i am free is making love, etc, etc...:P which reminds me of an article i read a few weeks back. Infact i always believed in that theory, for me making love, sex always had a positive impact physically and mentally. so here's that article i was reading, i am sure you guys will agree on it to an extent.

Couples who hug, kiss have lower levels of stress hormones in their bodies, a new study has suggested.

The Swiss study, reported in the journal Psychosomatic Medicine, point to one potential reason that close relationships - and marriage, in particular - have been linked to better health.

To reach the conclusion, researchers from the University of Zurich in Switzerland studied 51 mostly married German couples for one week, and found those who reported more physical contact, from holding hands to sexual intercourse, had lower levels of the so-called stress hormone, cortisol, in their saliva.

Cortisol is behind several stress-related changes in the body and is secreted in higher levels during the body's fight or flight response to stress.

The finding found that couples who reported more problems at work had the biggest drop in levels of the hormone through intimacy.

Lead author Dr Beate Ditzen said intimacy was thought to improve hormone levels simply by boosting mood.

She, however, stressed that couples should not race to express more intimacy as such, but rather find things to do together that create positive feelings for both partners.

Intimacy means different things for different couples, Dr Ditzen said.

"This means that there is no specific behaviour that couples should show in everyday life,'' News.com.au quoted her, as saying.

"Rather, all kinds of behaviour which couples themselves would consider intimate...might be beneficial," the expert added.

Courtesy :- ANI

It was a normal day yesterday, Usually my day doesnt ends early but it did and then i got a call from a friend. We had a brief chat,but somehow i was not comfortable with her tone so i texted her back asking abt it. She called back again and assured me that things were fine, but somehow i wasn't covinced. Then we just discussed abt each other's schedule for the rest of the evening, mine was a lil unhealthy so i asked her if she wud like to catch up for dinner...after a few formal arguements she agreed. She was already hanging out at a coffee shop at Changi airport so i asked her to wait there only. Yeah changi airport is one of the very few airports in the world where ppl do hang-up, there r some very nice coffee shops and bar there.

And then i dont know whether its a coincidence or a curse, whenever i give time to somebody the traffic has to fuck up big time irrespective of any city including a highly disciplined city like singapore as well! Anyway fortunately the lady was waiting in a comfortable place so i was a bit assured. Finally i reached abt 20-25mins late and wow a gorgeous girl with naughty eyes waved at me...hey i m here! :) yeah that was our prettygirl amy...:) I dont know what pretty settings she wanted to hv and was talking abt, fact of the matter is she was looking absolutely pretty...:)

Then we spent about two and a half hours chatting abt various stuffs abt each other, also a bit abt her interest in psychology, human behaviour. Time flew like a jet plane & then we realised it was pretty late and time to go. We had a small arguement on our mode of transportation as well, finally i won that arguement ofcourse and i dropped her back near her house and then went back home. It was a fantastic evening i had in a long long time and i m really thankfull to the prettygirl for doing it. And folks! i dont call her prettygirl just like that, she is really an amazing person, beautifull, smart and intelligent...:)

Offlate i noticed a lot of blogs discussing abt the difference of real world and virtual world, the difference in relationships in both conditions, etc, etc, etc...And by God it has surely caught my attention...so i really gave some thought on the subject and here's what i feel...

# There r a bunch of ppl who got into this so called VIRTUAL world to see new ppl, pass some free time and leave.
This set of ppl i think has been consistently psychologically harmless, they tend to choose set of pages they like, contribute their feelings on certain topics once in a while and carry on with no attatchments.

# Some came into this place who started blogging considering it like an electronic diary and jotted whatever they had in their minds and felt like sharing with the world.
This set of ppl r the most vulnerable ones. They shared almost everything with the world got connected emotionally with lot of them out there only to know that half of them dont even tread in the same line. Thats where their own belief of being this place REAL starts shaking. I mean in the last 4 years i hv seen it all out here, observed a lot of them very closely and by God now i myself feel why i spent so much time here. My agenda was only to disconnect myself from my real world which is way too ugly for sometime in a day, but now i realise that its still better, i know whats ahead of me, i know whatever it is will strike me face on. Something that annoys me the most is the comparison between the real and the virtual world. If it is so evident for them then why do they connect emotionally with anybody out here? They say that its only that we all blog together and visit each other regularly otherwise if some day any of us stops blogging for a long time, is that feeling gonna continue? well my counter question is that doesnt that happens in reality, we all hv friends, some close, some so on, there r times when some of us hv to go far away from the rest and the rest or u r not able to catch up with each other for a long time, things do get rusty, isn't it? so whats the point in comparison? I hv also seen many who r very close to each other on the blogs, but in person they might hv never seen each other or dont even intend to do so, well either its still that they dont hv enough of each other or the basic comparison is dominating their brains over the mutual feeling they hv for each other. Ofcourse i dont blame their attitudes towards each other, afterall we all hv different levels of thoughts and actions.

# Some came here and started only with an intention to malign other ppl's feeling out here, abuse them infront of the world and take pleasure in their sorrows. I found two categories of ppl in this set, one, who r strictly assholes upfront and the other is the category of ppl who are wolves under sheep skin! I mean for some they r so adorable and well behaved, but the moment u back check them they r nothing but spineless...

Sigh...anyway so far my journey hasn't been a regretfull one, i did came to know a few of them out here who r now my very good friends and for me this page is only a mean of communication to keep in touch with the ones whom i dont get to see regularly or talk regularly.

Thats all for now, bored u guys enough...:)

Loving u is like swallowing the hot chocolate before it cools off, it always takes me by surprise but the warmth remains for a long long time....sigh!

I first watched this movie when i was four...before u ask me how i remember things of that age, well i m gifted with very very strong memory my memory starts way back when i was 2 n a half years old and since then i remember every single thing in my life . Anyway enough of shameless self-promotion, coming back to the movie, i managed to find the dvd here and just done watching the movie. Yash chopra used to make such classic movies once upon a time and i liked all his movies untill he started his era with SRK. Commercially they were hit, srk himself got instated firmly in the industry thanks to him, but it also brought an end to my watching hindi movies completely. Anyway coming back to the movie, its abt the coalmine workers, their lives&miseries, its also a story of a disgraced man who runs away from his disgrace and dumps himself in grind of the miseries and ultimately finds his way out of his past disgrace. Fortunately the movie also stars all my past crushes all toether...ahem ahem Parveen Babi, Rakhi Gulzar and Neetu Singh...:D So incase if u happen to catch up with this movie i can assure u , u wont regret watching it. The song playing is one of the song from the movie, it always inspired me and still motivates me with its lyrics....

Sigh!

I hold close to me the flame we lit

As all those years passed apart

As the winds of life did blow

My love became like glass wrapped round it

And I carefully protected the sacred glow

Though we’ve set ourselves free to wander

I know that the light of our love

It was far too dear to squander

Lost in a world of shadowy darkness

I’ve lost my way, lost my senses

Been hollowed by the starkness

Still the light of what once was dances bright

Illuminating dreams and remembering

That such a beautiful prize is worth the fight

So do not begrudge me this old flame

With it I remember what it can be to fully love

Tenderly, peacefully, and passionately untamed...Sigh!

Courtesy :- Christina