Offlate i noticed a lot of blogs discussing abt the difference of real world and virtual world, the difference in relationships in both conditions, etc, etc, etc...And by God it has surely caught my attention...so i really gave some thought on the subject and here's what i feel...
# There r a bunch of ppl who got into this so called VIRTUAL world to see new ppl, pass some free time and leave.
This set of ppl i think has been consistently psychologically harmless, they tend to choose set of pages they like, contribute their feelings on certain topics once in a while and carry on with no attatchments.
# Some came into this place who started blogging considering it like an electronic diary and jotted whatever they had in their minds and felt like sharing with the world.
This set of ppl r the most vulnerable ones. They shared almost everything with the world got connected emotionally with lot of them out there only to know that half of them dont even tread in the same line. Thats where their own belief of being this place REAL starts shaking. I mean in the last 4 years i hv seen it all out here, observed a lot of them very closely and by God now i myself feel why i spent so much time here. My agenda was only to disconnect myself from my real world which is way too ugly for sometime in a day, but now i realise that its still better, i know whats ahead of me, i know whatever it is will strike me face on. Something that annoys me the most is the comparison between the real and the virtual world. If it is so evident for them then why do they connect emotionally with anybody out here? They say that its only that we all blog together and visit each other regularly otherwise if some day any of us stops blogging for a long time, is that feeling gonna continue? well my counter question is that doesnt that happens in reality, we all hv friends, some close, some so on, there r times when some of us hv to go far away from the rest and the rest or u r not able to catch up with each other for a long time, things do get rusty, isn't it? so whats the point in comparison? I hv also seen many who r very close to each other on the blogs, but in person they might hv never seen each other or dont even intend to do so, well either its still that they dont hv enough of each other or the basic comparison is dominating their brains over the mutual feeling they hv for each other. Ofcourse i dont blame their attitudes towards each other, afterall we all hv different levels of thoughts and actions.
# Some came here and started only with an intention to malign other ppl's feeling out here, abuse them infront of the world and take pleasure in their sorrows. I found two categories of ppl in this set, one, who r strictly assholes upfront and the other is the category of ppl who are wolves under sheep skin! I mean for some they r so adorable and well behaved, but the moment u back check them they r nothing but spineless...
Sigh...anyway so far my journey hasn't been a regretfull one, i did came to know a few of them out here who r now my very good friends and for me this page is only a mean of communication to keep in touch with the ones whom i dont get to see regularly or talk regularly.
Thats all for now, bored u guys enough...:)