Saturday, August 30, 2008

A woman needs a reason to cheat, a man only needs a woman.
How bloody unfair? Ok, okay i m not an unreasonable man, i know there's lot of truth and muscle behind that statement. Some reasons which comes to my mind are :-
# The old saying “men are only as faithful as their options” can sometimes ring true. Men don’t get offered sex as often as women so when the opportunity does arise, it can be very difficult for them to turn it down.
# Small, small differences, He’s met a woman who has more in common with him who loves football or plays golf. He may check out if he is compatible with her under the sheets also.
# Boring sex life. Some men cheat because they want to try new sexual things that their current partner will not try.
# And for an arrogant man like me, There’s nothing like the thrill of the chase on the hunt. When finally rewarded for the efforts, the ego swells even larger. Sounds very bad eh! yep till some years back this is precisely one of the reasons i changed partners like clothes, ofcourse not to forget, sometimes the fruits just fell in my hands just like that...
Phew! feeling a lot lighter from inside now and have no problem accepting that marked statement...sigh!

14 comments:

Keshi said...

I think Cheating occurs in a r'ship, when the bond isnt formed with an u'standing of love.

Keshi.

Southpaw unplugged said...

@Keshi
Surely one of the reason...

Sweetstickychewy said...

Lovely song playing on your blog.:)

***A woman needs a reason to cheat, a man only needs a woman.

Interesting thought.

I guess it always comes down to the individual's commitment/relationship/respect to his 'she'.

Southpaw unplugged said...

@Amy
I m glad u liked the song...:)

I guess it always comes down to the individual's commitment/relationship/respect to his 'she'.***Yes and lot more than that as well...

Solitaire said...

So what's the current status?

Anonymous said...

Well...well...yahan pe "my 2 cents" se kaam nahi chalega as this statement evokes lot many thoughts in my mind...so wuld discuss sumday on chat....!

*smiles*

..Shi

uttara said...

i also feel its the same with woman.. its not only a reason but there are girls who only needs a men.

and with u of course it's ego boost.and it swells like bhopla..lol right?

**yep till some years back this is precisely one of the reasons i changed partners like clothes,

i guess the reason behind this is also imp:) its not because u were like this guess the reason made u one


**ofcourse not to forget, sometimes the fruits just fell in my hands just like that..

ahem ahem who the hell on earth wud miss the opportunity..lols u r soo irresistible..hehehhe don't u know that :P

huggggggggz n muaaaaaaaah

uttara said...

n hey btw i have a question.. who has been the most boring partner till date and why? lolz

Southpaw unplugged said...

@solitaire
status of what?

@shilpa
sure we will

@uttara
most boring? there was one but once she got hooked with me she became quite adventurous

ishita said...

sup rajbir? besides reminiscing good ol' times :P

m feeling btr (got ur rply to my mail) but still not 100% okkk...

pity i missed u this time :( ... wl send in my other contact nos.(landlines) in my rply to ur mail, so i dun miss ur call nxt time...

tc :)

Southpaw unplugged said...

@ishita


sup rajbir? besides reminiscing good ol' times :¤¤¤doing good travelling endlessly :)right now at bangalore airport waiting for my flight to delhi and drooling at the kingfisher babes :D

Southpaw unplugged said...

@ishita
and u better take care of yourself:)

shooting star said...

it takes a lot of courage to admit that one was arrogant oor a dickhead(not that you were ever a dickhead!! :P) at some point of time.....
mots of the guys just keep on living in this inflated egoistic balloon in their lives...even when they have to gulp down a couple of viagras!!....

Southpaw unplugged said...

@Sush
mots of the guys just keep on living in this inflated egoistic balloon in their lives...even when they have to gulp down a couple of viagras!!....***Thank God i m crazy abt shell fish and brocolli, so hopefully no scope for viagara for a long long time...hahahaha, jokes apart, i know what u r saying and i admit its the case with most of'em, but i dont hv any problem admitting that i had changed gfs like clothes during a certain stage of my life, now its all over and gone for good...:)